What a vibrator is
A vibrator is a sex toy with a small motor that vibrates, used for stimulation of the clitoris, vagina, penis, nipples or anus. Most are battery-powered or USB-rechargeable, with several speeds and patterns.
Vibrators are among the most popular sex toys in the world, used alone and with partners. Studies suggest around half of UK women have used one.
Unlike a dildo, which has no motor, a vibrator focuses on vibration; some toys are both. See What is a dildo?.
The main types
Bullet vibrators are small, quiet and discreet, great for clitoral stimulation and for beginners. Wand vibrators are larger and more powerful, used externally.
Rabbit vibrators stimulate the G-spot and clitoris at the same time, with an internal shaft and an external "ear" piece. G-spot vibrators are curved to reach the front wall of the vagina; see How to find the G-spot.
Couples' vibrators are worn during sex, and app-controlled ones can be operated by a partner, even at a distance. Suction or "air pulse" toys use pulses of air rather than vibration.
Choosing your first one
A small bullet or a mid-size wand is a good, versatile first choice. Look for body-safe silicone, a rechargeable battery and a quiet motor.
Use water-based lube with silicone toys; silicone lube can damage them. Our lube guide explains why.
Buy from a reputable shop for safety and quality; see our guide to adult shops in person and online.
Using and cleaning
Start on the lowest setting and explore. Most people find external stimulation the best starting point.
Clean before and after each use with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner, being careful with the charging port unless the toy is waterproof. Dry fully and store separately.
Our guide to choosing, using and cleaning sex toys has more tips.
Your questions, answered
What is the best vibrator for beginners?
A small, quiet silicone bullet or a mid-size wand.
Can couples use vibrators?
Yes, many are designed for couples, including wearable and app-controlled ones.
How do you clean a vibrator?
Warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner, avoiding the charging port unless it is waterproof.
