What is lingerie?
Lingerie is a word for underwear and nightwear chosen for how it looks and feels, rather than just practicality. The word comes from the French for linen. Today it covers everything from a pretty matching bra set to a structured corset, and it's worn by people of every shape, size and gender.
People wear lingerie for all sorts of reasons. Some simply like feeling good under their everyday clothes, some save it for special occasions, and others wear it as part of a performance or costume, such as burlesque. There's no right or wrong reason, and the best lingerie is the kind you feel comfortable and confident in.
Types of lingerie: sets, bodysuits, babydolls and more
Bra and knicker sets are the most familiar kind, with matching colours or lace. Bodysuits are one piece garments that fit closely like a swimsuit, and some are smart enough to wear under a jacket or with jeans. A teddy is similar but usually softer and looser.
Babydolls are short, floaty nighties that fall loosely from the bust, often with matching knickers. A chemise is a little longer and closer fitting, a bit like a slip dress. Both are popular as nightwear, and many come with a matching robe or kimono.
Corsets, basques, suspenders and stockings
A corset is a structured garment with boning, usually laced or hooked, that shapes the waist. Proper steel boned corsets can be quite firm, so they're worth trying on. A basque is a longer top that runs from the bust to the waist or hips, usually with less structure than a corset and often with suspender straps attached.
Suspenders are straps that hold up stockings, either on a separate suspender belt or attached to a basque or corset. A handy tip is to put the suspender belt on first, then the stockings, then your knickers over the top. Stockings come in different thicknesses, measured in denier, and hold ups are an easier option, with a silicone band that keeps them up without suspenders.
Lingerie fabrics
Lace is the classic lingerie fabric, ranging from delicate French lace to stretchy everyday versions. Silk feels luxurious and breathes well but needs gentle care, while satin gives a similar shine and is usually more affordable and easier to look after. Mesh and tulle are sheer, lightweight fabrics often used for panels and details.
For comfort, cotton and soft microfibre are hard to beat. At the bolder end, wet look PVC, latex and leather are popular for fetish wear and club nights. If that interests you, our guide to fetish club dress codes explains what venues expect.
Finding your size, and buying lingerie as a gift
Getting the fit right makes all the difference. Many department stores and lingerie boutiques offer free bra fittings, which are well worth it, as sizes vary between brands and change over time. Be aware that UK, European and US sizes differ, so check the size chart carefully when shopping online.
If you're buying lingerie as a gift, a sneaky look at the labels on items your partner already wears is the most reliable way to get sizes right. Pieces with some stretch, such as babydolls, chemises and robes, are more forgiving than bras or corsets. Always ask for a gift receipt, and remember that many shops won't accept returns on worn items for hygiene reasons. A gift voucher from a good boutique is never a bad idea.
Where to buy lingerie near me, and how to care for it
If you're searching for lingerie near me, you have plenty of choices. High street shops and department stores cover everyday styles, specialist boutiques offer expert fitting and higher end pieces, and many adult shops carry a good range of sexier styles, costumes and fetish wear alongside other products. Our guide to adult shops in person and online explains what to expect, and online retailers ship in discreet packaging.
To make lingerie last, hand wash it in cool water with a mild detergent, or use a mesh laundry bag on a delicate cycle. Fasten any hooks first so they don't snag, never wring it out, and dry it flat or hanging rather than in a tumble dryer. Store delicate pieces flat or folded, and keep corsets in a cool, dry place.
Your questions, answered
What is lingerie?
Underwear and nightwear chosen for how it looks and feels, such as matching bra sets, bodysuits, babydolls, chemises, corsets and stockings.
What's the difference between a corset and a basque?
A corset is firmly boned and laced to shape the waist. A basque is a longer, softer top from bust to waist or hips, often with suspender straps.
Where can I buy lingerie near me?
Try department stores, specialist lingerie boutiques for fitting, adult shops for sexier styles and fetish wear, or online retailers who deliver discreetly.
How do you wash lingerie?
Hand wash in cool water with mild detergent, or use a mesh bag on a delicate cycle. Fasten hooks, don't wring it and avoid the tumble dryer.