Arriving and getting in
Most gentlemen's clubs in the UK are licensed by their local council and run to a clear set of house rules. At the door you can expect an ID check, a dress code (smart casual is a safe bet, and some clubs turn away sportswear or trainers) and sometimes an entry fee.
Groups are usually welcome, but stag parties aren't accepted everywhere, so check before you go. A quick look at the club's listing in our gentlemen's clubs section or its own website will usually tell you what you need to know.
How the evening works
Inside, it's a bar with stage performances. Dancers will often come over to chat and may offer a private dance, which takes place in a separate area for an agreed length of time. You never have to say yes. A friendly no thanks is all it takes.
The price of a private dance is set by the club or the dancer, so ask before you agree. Some clubs use their own vouchers or tokens, and many have a cash machine on site, which can carry a fee. Decide on a budget before you walk in. You'll enjoy the night far more.
A good way to think of it: you're paying for a dancer's time, the same as you'd pay for a drink. If you've enjoyed someone's company at the bar, a dance is a nice way to say so. If you'd rather just watch the stage and finish your pint, that's absolutely fine too.
The house rules
Every licensed club has rules, and the most important is simple: keep your hands to yourself. Exact rules vary with each club's licence, but the safe assumption is no touching at all. Security staff and cameras are there to make sure everyone is safe, dancers included.
Photos and filming are almost always banned. Keep your phone away, don't ask for personal contact details, and respect a dancer's answer the first time. Honestly, guests who stick to the rules have a better night.
Being a good guest
Be friendly, pace your drinking and treat staff and dancers with the same respect you'd expect at work. Dancers are professionals, and a pleasant conversation is often appreciated as much as a booking.
If something makes you uncomfortable, speak to a member of staff or security. If you have concerns about how a club is run, you can also tell us through our report form.
And when you leave, leave. Don't wait around outside for a dancer or try to follow anyone. Respecting the line between the club and real life is part of what keeps these places running smoothly for everyone.
Your questions, answered
Do I have to pay for a private dance?
Only if you choose to have one. Always ask the price first. You're free to say no at any point.
Can I go to a gentlemen's club on my own?
Yes. Plenty of guests go alone, and staff are used to welcoming first-timers.