Why we don't list prices here
Every business sets its own prices, and they change over time. Quoting figures in a guide would quickly go out of date and could be misleading. The best source is always the business itself, through its listing, its website or a direct question.
What we can do is explain the main things that push prices up or down, so you know what to expect and can spot something that seems unusually high or suspiciously low.
If a listing doesn't show prices, just ask. Something like, could you tell me your rates for an hour on a weekday evening, is perfectly reasonable, and a good business will give you a straight answer.
The main factors
Location is one of the biggest. Central London and other big city centres generally cost more than smaller towns, reflecting rents and demand. Time of day and day of the week can matter too, with evenings and weekends often busier.
Length of booking, incall versus outcall, travel distance, the standard of the premises and the experience of the person or team all play a part. At venues, entry fees, membership, themed nights and drinks prices make up much of the cost.
Venues have their own patterns. A club might charge one entry fee on a quiet Tuesday and another for a busy themed Saturday. Some offer membership that works out cheaper if you go often. If you're planning regular nights out, it's worth asking what's available.
Budgeting without surprises
Always confirm the full price before you meet or arrive, including any extras such as travel, entry or card fees. Bring the agreed amount, in the agreed way, and don't assume you can negotiate on the night.
Be cautious of prices that seem far below what similar places charge in the same area. Very low prices are sometimes used as bait by fake profiles. Comparing a few listings in the UK directory will quickly show you what's typical.
Remember the extras that are easy to forget: taxis home, parking, a hotel room for outcall, drinks at a venue. They add up quickly, and it's much nicer to know the full cost before the night than to work it out afterwards.
Value is more than price
The cheapest option isn't always the best, and the dearest isn't always worth it. Look at what reviews say about communication, cleanliness and punctuality. Those everyday details often tell you more about value than the price does.
If you're unsure, start with a shorter booking or a quieter night at a venue. You'll get a feel for the place without committing to a big spend.
Your questions, answered
Can I haggle over the price?
It's best not to. Prices are set by the business, and trying to bargain on arrival is generally seen as disrespectful.
Why are some prices much lower than others?
Location, length and setting all affect price. A price far below similar places nearby can also be a warning sign, so take care.