Check the hotel's rules
Hotels set their own policies on visitors. Some are relaxed, some ask visitors to sign in at reception, and some don't allow guests to have visitors in their rooms at all, particularly late at night. Read the hotel's guest policy before you book outcall.
Book the room in your own name and check you're allowed visitors. Ignoring the rules can lead to an awkward conversation at reception, or to the visitor being turned away.
Big chain hotels and small boutique places can be very different. If you're unsure, a look at the hotel's website or a polite call to ask about their visitor policy is all it takes. You don't need to explain why you're asking.
Give clear details
When you arrange outcall, the agency or escort will usually ask for the hotel name, your room number and the name the room is booked under. Some will ring the hotel to check. This is a normal safety step, so give accurate details.
Agree the arrival time, length and total price, including travel, before they set off. Our guide to contacting and booking explains what to confirm.
Keep your phone on and nearby around the agreed time. The escort or agency may ring when they arrive or if they're stuck in traffic. A missed call at that moment can easily turn into a cancelled booking.
Staying discreet
Keep things low key. Meet at the room rather than in the lobby, keep noise down, and don't involve hotel staff. Treat your visitor as you'd any guest arriving to see you.
Make sure the room is tidy and there's somewhere to sit. If you've got valuables, keep them safe in the room safe, which is good practice whether or not you have a visitor.
When they arrive, let them in quickly and quietly. Small touches, like having the agreed amount ready in an envelope and a glass of water on offer, make a slightly nervous moment much easier for both of you.
Keeping everyone safe
Your visitor is travelling to a stranger's room, which takes trust. Be respectful from the moment they knock, and let them leave whenever they wish. If anything feels unsafe for either of you, end the meeting politely.
If you ever witness something that makes you worried about someone's safety or wellbeing, read our guide to reporting concerns.
Safety works both ways. If you're asked to change hotels at the last minute or meet somewhere else, it's fine to say no and cancel. A booking that suddenly doesn't feel right is a good one to walk away from.
Your questions, answered
Do I need to tell the hotel I am having a visitor?
Some hotels require visitors to sign in. Check the hotel's policy and follow it.
Why do they want my room number in advance?
It lets the agency or escort confirm the booking is genuine, which is an important safety step for them.